Sunday, 23 March 2014

FRIENDZONE

One of the most overused terms when it comes down to dating is "the friend zone." It's amazing how many people get stuck in that mysterious zone. You know what the Friendzone is, right?

It’s basically a pre-emptive rejection where people get too comfortable with someone and see them as only a special conversation and sharing info partner 'a friend' and unconsciously reject the person as an intimate partner.

In a layman’s explanation, it’s when you’re intimately interested in the opposite sex, maybe even head over heels in love with him or her, but he or she is only interested in you "as a friend."

You may have even had a discussion about it. Perhaps the person delivered the infamous "Let’s just be friends" line to you.

If you have just been friendzoned, run faster that Usain Bolt and don’t look back. Should you choose to stay in this zone, with the hope that one day, the person will reciprocate and feel intimate towards you. “What more can I say than you just sentenced yourself to emotional imprisonment with hard labour.”

One advice, try as much as possible to avoid getting into this zone because going from friendship to romantic love is nearly impossible. “Did I hear someone say it’s possible, seriously, and I thought politicians knew how to lie?”

Well that’s just my view through my not so medicated glasses. What’s your take on this?



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